Be Deliberate with Your Time and Resources: A Holiday Guide
Ah, the holidays—they come with all the glitter, glam, and often far too many commitments to squeeze into a single month. As you enter December, it’s the perfect time to lean into ithrive31’s Core Principle #2: Be deliberate with your time and resources.
This principle is all about setting boundaries, making intentional decisions, and choosing what truly matters to you. During the holiday season, it can feel like you need to say yes to everything: the parties, the gift exchanges, the cookie-baking contests. But saying yes to everything often leads to stress, exhaustion, and leaving your own needs behind.
To help you navigate this season with good energy (and sanity!), here are five considerations to guide how you spend your time this month:
1. Say Yes Wisely
For the things I’ve committed to, am I genuinely excited about them?
This time of year can feel like a whirlwind of invitations—holiday parties, school concerts, and family get-togethers. Ask yourself: Is this something that brings me energy? Or am I saying yes out of guilt or obligation?
An invitation: Instead of attending every holiday party, prioritize the one or two events that mean the most to you. Maybe it’s the annual gathering with close friends or volunteering at a community event that fills your bucket. Let go of the rest—graciously decline, and trust that it’s okay to do so.
2. Leave Space for the Unexpected
Do I have enough white space in my schedule?
Some of the best holiday memories come from unplanned moments, like an impromptu drive to look at Christmas lights, baking cookies with the kids, or cozying up for a family movie night. If your schedule is packed to the brim, there’s no room for spontaneity.
An invitation: Block off a couple of “no-commitment evenings” each week. Treat these like sacred time for relaxation or last-minute fun. When a creative or joyful idea pops up, you’ll have the freedom to say yes without guilt or overextending yourself.
3. Mind Your Sacrifices
What am I sacrificing to fit everything in?
When we’re laser-focused on delivering the perfect holiday, we often neglect self-care. Sleep gets cut short, healthy eating gets skipped, and exercise is left behind. Over time, these sacrifices leave us running on empty.
An invitation: Before filling your calendar, pencil in your non-negotiables—whether it’s your weekly yoga class, a morning walk, or setting aside time for a healthy breakfast. Treat these commitments to yourself with the same importance as your holiday obligations.
4. Communicate with Intention
Am I keeping the lines of communication open?
The holiday hustle can lead to missed opportunities for meaningful connections. When we’re moving fast, it’s easy to lose touch with those closest to us. Be proactive about communication to avoid misunderstandings or unnecessary tension.
An invitation: If you’re dreading your partner’s holiday party or a family get-together, have an honest conversation in advance. Set boundaries around your time there—perhaps agreeing to attend for an hour or two before heading home. This creates clarity and reduces potential friction.
5. Fill Your Own Bucket First
How can I stay energized while showing up for others?
As we pour energy into making the holidays magical for everyone else, our own bucket can run dry. Remember: You can’t give your best to others when you’re running on fumes.
An invitation: Take time each morning to ground yourself, whether through journaling, meditation or simply sipping coffee in silence. Reflect on what you truly want this season—not just for others, but for yourself. When you feel fulfilled, you’ll naturally spread more good energy.
Wrapping It Up
This holiday season, challenge yourself to focus on what truly matters. When you’re deliberate with your time and resources, you create space for joy, connection, and the memories that matter most. Let go of perfection, set boundaries, and lean into the experiences that align with your values.
Here’s to a December filled with intention, good energy, and moments that light you up!
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